The Asay Family

Sunday, January 4, 2015

Day 4-Pre-Church Play Doh, Fridge Magnets, and a Roly Baby

Today was the first Sunday of the new year, and our church time changed from 9am to 1pm. I prefer 9am, since 1pm is Charlotte's naptime, but it was nice to have some time to play together this morning before church. The girls love play doh. I even let Vera touch some today.

(Also, I have noticed that a lot of pictures so far have been the kids in their pajamas. I promise that's a coincidence and that they get dressed every day.)

Elise with her play doh family

Charlotte was being a stinker and tasting some even though she knew she wasn't supposed to.

Then later I was working with Charlotte on her name with our fridge magnets. I would tell her the next letter, and she would pick it out of the group of letters and put it in its place. Poor kid has nine letters and a confusing beginning sound, so I suspect we will be working on her name for a while.

Last, but not least, Vera has finally started to really roll from her belly to back! She has been able to do it for a while now if you position her arms for her, but she is finally getting her arms out in front enough that she is rolling on her own more often. It's hard work to roll over when you're four and a half months old and 17 pounds, the poor little chunker! We love this beautiful, growing babe and enjoy her blossoming personality every day.

Obviously, this is more than one photo from today. I don't want to limit myself to one if I feel like posting more, but the plan is to post at least one photo each day. I'm having fun so far!

Saturday, January 3, 2015

A Photo a Day-Day 3

rainy day walk to check the mail

Friday, January 2, 2015

A Photo a Day-Day 2

This morning, Elise put together her mermaid puzzle. (She let Charlotte put the last piece in so they could say they did it together, such a sweet sister.) Then Charlotte wanted to wear the mermaid dress-up dress and "swim" with the mermaids in the puzzle. Having little kids means endless amusement.

Also, could we please have three Saturdays every week? We are loving having Matt home with us for a four day weekend.

Thursday, January 1, 2015

A Photo a Day-Day 1

In an effort to get back to documenting our lives on his little blog, I have decided to try to post a photo a day for 2015. Hopefully setting a small goal will help me stay on track.

So for the first day of the new year, here's a photo of Elise, decked out in dress up attire. When we're at home, she almost always stays in dress up clothes. For going out, she begs to wear a dress or skirt. Yellow is her favorite color. The tutu is from Christmas. She also got an Anna dress, and an Elsa dress to match that tiara (from the movie Frozen), so she's had lots of fun dressing up lately. And that's spaghetti staining her mouth. I love this four-year-old, and I never want to forget her dress up days, her obsession with yellow, or the stubborn way she insists on dressing in impractical clothes.

Friday, August 29, 2014

Sisterly Love

We are all so in love with baby Vera. Charlotte, who was already crazy for babies before she became a big sister, has a special love for Vera. And if you've ever had a newborn with little ones in the house, you know that protecting the baby from overly affectionate older siblings is a full-time job. Constant vigilance! Smothering a person with kisses and hugs is a real danger, and I mean literally smothering. So much love. I told the girls a couple of times, "Please don't clobber her!" And now Charlotte (who apparently doesn't know that clobbering a person is frowned upon) tells me, "I want to quobber her!"

Charlotte meeting Vera for the first time

Most of the time, she is so very sweet and gentle.

tummy time snuggles

no such thing as too close

I love it when they give Vera sweet kisses.

Charlotte loves to tell us, "She likes me." She also tells us when Vera needs a hug, needs a kiss, has her eyes open, is looking around, is asleep, is crying, spit up (you get the idea).
Charlotte is also a terrific assistant burper and pats Vera's back with me and says, "Burp, Vera, burp."

Charlotte even shares her very special butterfly blanket lovey. She loves that Vera has a big butterfly blanket of her own. "They match the same butterfly blanket!" is frequently repeated.

And sometimes she is sweet but not so gentle.

Vera probably sleeps better at night because this is what happens when she tries to sleep during the day.

Does it count as touching if she doesn't use her hands?

Charlotte told me, "I want to squeeze her cheeks and say chubby willy nilly." Don't we all, Charlotte?

Love these girls, all three of them. They are going to be the best of friends someday. If Vera survives all the love.

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Pronunciation

We have had lots of inquiries since Vera was born about how to pronounce her name. Also, our last name can be difficult since it isn't spelled like it's pronounced. Here's a breakdown of our family's names and how we pronounce them. Hopefully this helps!

Vera is pronounced VEER-ah (not VAIR-ah).
Charlotte is pronounced SHAR-let (not SHAR-lot).
Elise is pronounced eh-LEASE (not ee-LEASE).
Blair rhymes with Claire (one syllable like Claire, but has no E at the end).
I think most people have no problems with the name Matt.

And our last name is Asay, which is pronounced like the letters A and C (rhymes with Casey). It isn't uh-SAY or assay (which means "the testing of a metal or ore to determine its ingredients and quality").

Don't worry if this confuses you more than helps. Just say our names however you want, and we will happily answer. :)

And because you probably just came looking for pictures of Vera . . .

Friday, August 15, 2014

Vera's Birth Story

I went to my last doctor's appointment on Tuesday, August 12th. Thirty-nine weeks and six days pregnant. I got indoors just before a strong storm started outside, with strong wind, rain, and hail. There was rain water coming in under the door, and the door kept blowing open from the wind. Still dilated to 3cm and 70% effaced, just like the previous week. I was a little frustrated about no change since I had been having lots more contractions, some of them pretty painful. We talked about induction, which I was nervous about since my induction experience with Elise wasn't the best (no epidural at first, I don't know what I was thinking). I called Matt, and together we decided on Thursday at 3am. The other options were that night at 8pm (we didn't feel like we could be ready in time) or Sunday (I didn't want to be pregnant that long).

My due date, August 13th, came and went. More rain. More, stronger contractions. That night after our girls were fed and bathed, we brought them to my sister Holly's house to put them to bed. We explained to them that in the morning we wouldn't be there because we would be at the hospital but Daddy would pick them up later so they could visit the baby.

We came home after they were asleep, got some things finished up, and went to bed. Two o'clock came too early, but we woke up and started getting dressed. Then, about 2:30am (we were going to leave for the hospital at about 2:40), Matt noticed a message on his phone. We called the hospital back, and they told us they were too busy to take us for the induction. They would call us when they could take us. They wouldn't give us any kind of timeframe. We went back to bed and woke up about 6:30am not feeling very rested. Elise and Charlotte were at my sisters house still. We hung around all morning. We even watched a movie. Feeling super guilty that we were at home with nothing to do while my sister juggled her own kids (Did I mention she has five, one of them only two months old at the time?) as well as ours, we headed to her house. We fed our kids her food for lunch, put Charlotte down for a nap that ended up literally lasting 10 minutes, and hung around some more. More contractions. No news from the hospital. We decided that we needed to get our kids home, fed, and to bed in their own beds.

By this point we were starting to get pretty frustrated, and I was getting pretty uncomfortable. We ate dinner, bathed the girls, and put them to bed. I kept going back and forth about whether or not we should go to the hospital since my contractions were getting stronger. Once the girls were asleep, we finally decided to call our friend Sierra so she could come stay at our house with our girls while we went to the hospital. The people at the hospital took our information, checked me in triage, and decided to keep me there. They sent us back out to the waiting room for over an hour (busy hospital). It was after 11pm when they finally brought me back to a room. I was GBS positive, dilated to 5cm and contracting, and I had had an appointment for an induction, so they couldn't really send me home. They started me on penicillin. Crazy burning sensation in my hand I don't remember having with the other girls, but apparently that's normal. I got really shaky. I really wanted an epidural at this point. They gave me an epidural (hallelujah!), and I finally got to relax. Matt was super tired; he doesn't do well on little sleep. I was tired too, but feeling much better after the epidural.

I didn't relax long. A little before 2am, I finished getting my first dose of penicillin. Ideally, they want you to get 2 doses, 4 hours apart, just to be safe. The nurse told me to pull myself up in the bed so she could check me, and when I did I thought I felt my water break. I was right, and things happened quickly from there. I was at 6cm when my water broke. The doctor arrived shortly after that, and before I knew it I was ready to push. Just a few short pushes, and Vera was born! It was a little after 3am, so almost exactly 24 hours after my original appointment for induction and two days after my due date. No tearing or stitches. No complications. Just a beautiful baby girl.

Vera Helen Asay was born at 3:04am on August 15, 2014. She was 9 lbs 1oz and 21 inches long. Healthy and perfect. We love her so much. We have been so richly blessed.